Unlock a Life that's Truly Yours!

Tired of the same patterns of behavior, where you keep making the same mistakes?

These automatic responses are your survival strategies quietly directing your choices. It's time to break this cycle, to once-and-for-all break these entrenched habits and take your power back.

Here’s What You’ll Unlock Inside
(The Framework)

Every 4-call module, gets you a bonus week, known as an Integration Week. This allows you a free week where you can process, practice, and make the new skills stick for good.

If you want to go even deeper, join as a member in The Integrated You Membership. This gives you access to the full See Your Pattern Program, plus ongoing group calls the first 3 Wednesdays of the Month at 7 pm EST for just $97/month. Most people take this See Your Pattern Program more than once, each time rising to a new level and breaking free from the chains of their patterns, to become free to be truly themselves.

When Survival Strategies Become Crutches

The behaviors you learned growing up helped you navigate hard moments. They made perfect sense back then. But now, they are the automatic responses that take over every time you feel stressed, threatened, or overwhelmed.

What once served as your armor has quietly become the invisible wall keeping you stuck in cycles you desperately want to break. You aren't broken. It's just that your nervous system is simply running an outdated survival script that you have the power to rewrite.

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Escapism is a Favorite Survival Strategy

Your Stories Dictate Your Actions...
And You're Mostly Blind to Them

Your Stories come in many flavors, but they all do one thing: Become the lens upon which you see the world.

If you think eating healthy is boring, then if you try to eat healthy, how long will it be before you sabotage yourself?

But more than that, is that your stories are layered. There's the Outside logical Story or thought you have. There's the underlying belief story, and then there's the inner emotional story that feels so true to you, that you don't even recognize it's there.

These three levels were often formed in your earliest years and have been quietly directing your choices ever since.

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Your Body Keeps the Score

Once you know your survival behaviors and understand how to change your stories, there is still the very physical aspect of yoru body leading in the way that has helped you to get this far, has helped you to survive.

Your nervous system holds the score. Learning how to calm your body when overwhelmed and bringing it back to a palce where you can still act, even if you're a bit scared is essential to growth.

The reverse is also true and is often more ignored, it's the ability to activate your body, when all it wants is to relax (which is often a shut down response), to help you stay on track with the life you want.

Then it's being able to regulate the movement between these two, of relaxation and activation.

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My Story:

Why I Created See Your Pattern and Why It Had To Work on the Most Entrenched Habits

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Real Struggle to Real Change

With easy habits, I could change just by making the necessary steps. They were easy. Logical. Do the thing, change the thing.

But the truly entrenched habits that were ruining my life and my relationships, the things that would sneak up on me when I was tired or having an off day, the things that would fuck up everything else in my life...those habits, I truly wanted to change, tried to change, and kept failing to change. Those things fucked me up.

So I had to dig deeper.
I read all the books. Got a Psychology degree. Took the courses. Yet nothing stuck for long. I needed to get to the core of the issues. Initially I could see some patterns. I got lots of insights. These felt good, but they weren't sufficient. What was needed, was to change them on a deeper, emotional level, where logic only came in afterwards.
Because that's what these habits were:
Deeply emotional and doing their best to protect me. When I could change them there, everything changed.

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Building the Solution

It took years of struggle, deep study, and hands-on work with myself and with hundreds of clients. All of that, led to multiple courses, refining and breaking down everything to get to it's essential aspects. This is hte current framework of the See Your Pattern Program.

It’s the framework I would've needed and would've saved me about 80-90% of all the drama I've had in my life since I was 21.

Now I’m sharing it all, so you can break the cycle, before you fuck up your life too.

The solutions I've come up with are relatively straight-forward and simple, but they're not widely known. Shit, it took me decades and hundreds, if not thousands of experiments, seeing what worked for the most entrenched habits, something that worked with 80-90% of my client's issues, to teach the absolute essentials, the foundations of what creates implicit change. This is the change that happens without you consciously thinking aobu tit.

This is where you want change to be. This is the power to change that acts on the emotional level, before logic even has a chance to come in.

These techniques make up The See Your Pattern Program and are the home of Lasting Change.

You're Not Broken, But Your Old Patterns Are Running the Show

Ever feel stuck, no matter what habit you try to change? Most programs miss the REAL reason:
Your subconscious patterns are calling the shots.
This is the deep work that finally gets results. It's what See Your Pattern is designed for.

What Makes This Different?

Why Other Programs Fail
(And How We Fix That)

Most Programs Address 2 to 3 Aspects.
This One Addresses The Missing Aspects.

The 5 Areas of Change:

  • 1: Logistics: Set up your actions for real, lasting success.

  • 2: Environment: Design your space and routines for change.

  • 3: Behaviors: Look at your behaviors and tell yourself to do a different behavior.

Most programs only give you the topical solutions. They don't go deep and they blame you when you can't stick to them, because they don't get to the core of the issue.

This is different: The Missing Aspects

  • 3B. Your Survival Behaviors (Your Survival Strategies): These are the pattern of behaviors that served smart and logical purposes in your life, that you never unlearned. If you don't recognize the role, these behaviors have, then you'll repeat them.

  • 4: Beliefs: These are the stories serving as the lens through which you see the world and run your life. To change this, not through force, but with deeper understanding allows you to live with more inner peace, while making outside changes.

  • 5: Soma State: Give your body the tools to regulate your energy and emotions, in a way that allows you to stay on track.

Real Results: What Students Say About The See Your Pattern Program

I’ve tried breaking my habits for years, and always ended up back where I started. See Your Pattern helped me finally understand WHY. Seeing how the stories controlled my emotions, and how to change it, felt so freeing.

Ava C.

There were so many tools, from recognizing your survival strategies, to changing your stories, and then the body-based tools. Honestly, it felt a bit like it was too much, but if you incorporate the tools, they work on everything. This feels like a masterclass in everything you'll need to change.

Sandra H.

I learned you can’t out-plan old patterns. This is the program that made those stories visible AND showed me the easiest way to get to a place of peace with them. The hardest part is sometimes recognizing the stories.

Marcus T.

A Phased Journey to Deep Integration

By the end of 14 weeks, you not only understand yourself better, but you'll have real, embodied tools to interrupt your automatic patterns going forward.

The 14-Week Deep Dive

A comprehensive group coaching experience designed to help you interrupt automatic responses and build a life that is truly yours.

Here’s What’s Included:

  • 14 weeks of expert-led transformation: Direct guidance and real-time breakthroughs across all three dimensions of your pattern. LIVE and recorded ($1400 value)

  • Workbook & pattern-finder toolkit: Take what you learn, apply it in one area of your life, and then have the ability to apply it to every area of your life ($197 value)

  • Lifetime access to the course, tools, and replays: Revisit every session, concept, and breakthrough whenever you need a refresher. ($497 value)

  • 'Movie of the Mind' Framework: Master the core tool to rewrite subconscious stories and neutralize triggers. ($197 value)

  • Somatic Regulation Toolkit: Body-based practices to calm overwhelm and regulate your nervous system on demand. ($197 value)

  • BONUS: Free Additional 30-Days to The Integrated You Membership: Get access to other courses and ongoing coaching to stick to what you've learned, and integrate it into your life ($97 value)

Total Value: $2,500+

Regular Price: $397 (for 3 months access) or Get access to everything for just $97/month in The Integrated You Membership. No extra fees, cancel anytime.

Why Wait?

The True Value (And Our Ironclad Guarantee)

How much would you pay to finally break a lifelong pattern, leave old habits behind, and feel calm and in-control for potentially, the first time?

This program has the ability to be worth many times more than you pay, because it get to the real root of your inhibitions, allows you to change them, and then keeps working after you finish.

Spaces are limited and this program is only run three times per year, because of it's intensive nature.

If you’re not blown away by what you discover in the first 30 days, email us for a full, no-questions-asked refund.

Hit the button below and discover the freedom on the other side of your patterns.

This is your time to change for good.

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